Temple Beth Am of Bayonne

County: Hudson
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 111 Avenue B
Town: Bayonne
State: NJ
Zip: 07002
Phone: (201) 858-2020

Description:
Temple Beth Am is a Reform synagogue affiliated with the Union of American Hebrew Congregations. Reform Judaism outreach officially welcomes participation and membership by gay and lesbian Jews. Gays and lesbians who have been ordained as rabbis serve Reform congregations across the United States.

At present, our Temple Family includes approximately 100 households. Any member may be elected to the Temple's Board of Trustees, and all members may serve on Temple committees. Both members of a committed couple may be included in any synagogue observance or celebration. We are a very open, welcoming congregation with a liberal rabbi as spiritual leader.

Wesley United Methodist Church of Bayonne

County: Hudson
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 974 Ave. C
Town: Bayonne
State: NJ
Zip: 07002
Phone: (201) 858-2927

Description:
The Wesley United Methodist Church of Bayonne

is an 89 "Christian member" congregation that welcomes the gay community. It welcomes gay members to "come out" and participate and also serve as ritual/spiritual leaders. The congregation provides a "Food Bank" for those in need. It also provides the following educational projects or programming: Wesley players (theatre group), Bible/Faith Study, Adult Education on church history when requested, and Sunday School.

Group hosted by congregation: AA

Please remember - All are welcome to our house of worship.

Boonton United Methodist Church

County: Morris
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 626 Lathrop Ave.
Town: Boonton
State: NJ
Zip: 07005
Phone: (973) 334-8275
Fax: (973) 334-8654
Homepage: http://www.gbgm-umc.org

Description:
Boonton United Methodist Church, an 80-member congregation, does not recognize same sex families as family units for membership purposes, and does not welcome gays to serve on its governing body.

There has been no outreach and the congregation does not describe itself as actively welcoming to gays.

Opportunities for service do include serving Holy Communion, teaching in the religious education program, and reading scripture.

A.A. holds a meeting in the building. The congregation says about itself: "We claim to be a church for all God's people."

United Presbyterian Church of Cedar Grove

County: Essex
Religion: Presbyterian
Address: 155 Commerce Road
Town: Cedar Grove
State: NJ
Zip: 07009
Phone: (973) 239-8520

Description:
The United Presbyterian Church of Cedar Grove has a membership of 90 people. It is welcoming to GLBT people.

It is part of the Covenant Network, a Presbyterian gay organization.

Same sex families are recognized as family units for the purposes of membership. Gays may serve as religious leaders and as religious education and youth program leaders. Both members of a same sex couple will be included in public ritual events.

The congregation has sponsored Session programming on gay issues.

Everyone is welcome at United Presbyterian Church.

St Peter's Episcopal Church

County: Essex
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 380 Clifton Avenue
Town: Clifton
State: NJ
Zip: 07011
Phone: (973) 546-5020
Fax: (973) 478-3055

Description:
St Peter' Episcopal Church in Clifton is actively welcoming to GLBT people and has gone through the Episcopal program, The Oasis. St. Peter's reaches out to gays through the Oasis Directory.

Same sex families are recognized as family units. Gays are welcome to serve on governing boards and serve as worship and spiritual leaders in the congregation.

They celebrate Pride Sunday in prayers, the announcements, and the sermon. Some members go to the N. Y. City Pride parade. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and the rector would perform them

Outreach includes one A.A. meeting, three N.A. meetings, "The Haven", a shelter for homeless families and a food pantry.

Everyone is welcome at worship.

Christ Episcopal Church

County: Essex
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 74 Park Avenue
Town: Glen Ridge
State: NJ
Zip: 07028
Phone: (973) 743-5911
Fax: (973) 743-0216

Description:
Christ Episcopal Church in Glen Ridge has 200 members and actively welcomes GLBT people.

It hopes this directory will enable it to reach out to the community. Christ Church has gay members.

Same sex families are recognized as a family unit for purposes of membership and would be included as a couple in public rituals. Gays are welcome to serve on all governing boards and they may serve as ritual and religious leaders

The denomination ordains openly gay people, but does not permit same sex commitment ceremonies.

Everyone is welcome at Christ Church.

First Lutheran Church of Kearny

County: Hudson
Religion: Lutheran (ECLA)
Address: 65 Oakwood Avenue
Town: Kearny
State: NJ
Zip: 07032
Phone: (201) 991-1623
Homepage: http://firstlutheran.faithweb.com

Description:
The First Lutheran Church of Kearny, a congregation that includes 110 members, 45 in worship. The council just voted to become a Reconciling In Christ Congregation, a designation indicating intentional inclusion of gays in the life of the congregation.

The congregation is new to the R.I.C. program and welcomes constructive suggestions. Gays are able to serve as ritual/spiritual leaders on the worship committee, serve Holy Communion, act as religious education teachers, read scripture, and function as deacons and youth program leaders.

Both members of a couple would be included in family ritual events such as Baptism and Confirmation. The congregation is willing to host support group meetings, and also sponsors a "Food Pantry" that serves 60 families a week.

"All persons are welcome to our congregation!"

Temple Beth-El

County: Hudson
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 2419 Kennedy Blvd.
Town: Jersey City
State: NJ
Zip: 07034
Phone: (201) 333-4229
Fax: (201) 938-0445
Homepage: http://www.betheljc.org

Description:
Temple Beth-El in Jersey City, a 175 family congregation, has gay members and same sex families are recognized. Gays are also welcome to serve on governing councils, boards, etc. and to serve as leaders on the worship committee. They can serve as religious education teachers, read scripture, read the Torah, and lead services. The temple currently does not have a youth program.

Both members of a couple may be included in the following public ritual events: Honors, Baby Naming, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Aufruf, Anniversaries, and funerals.

The Rabbi has served on the board of a local agency, which provides housing for people with HIV/AIDS.

The Rabbi will perform same-sex ceremonies with the support of the congregation.

Bnai Keshet

County: Essex
Religion: Jewish (Reconstructionist)
Address: 99 South Fullerton Ave.
Town: Montclair
State: NJ
Zip: 07042
Phone: (973)746-4889
Fax: (973) 746-4963
Homepage: http://www.bnaikeshet.org/

Description:
Bnai Keshet, is a Reconstructionist Jewish congregation of approximately 165 households "...our congregation is representative of the broader community: young families, mature couples, singles, interfaith and non-traditional families."

Same sex families are recognized as a family unit for purposes of membership would be included as a couple in public rituals. Gays are welcome to serve on all governing boards and they may serve as ritual and religious leaders.

The denomination ordains openly gay people and permits same sex commitment ceremonies that the rabbi will conduct. Their outreach material includes reference to sexual orientation.

First Lutheran Church

County: Essex
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 153 Park Street
Town: Montclair
State: NJ
Zip: 07042
Phone: (973) 744-6043
Fax: (973) 744-2287

Description:
First Lutheran Church (ELCA) in Montclair is a 400-member congregation, has gay members and is open to gay, lesbian, and transgendered persons. It welcomes gay members to participate fully in the life of the congregation.

Opportunities for service include church council, worship committee, worship leadership, and working with youth and education.

Same sex families are recognized for membership and public rituals. The pastor is open to conducting a "Blessing the Establishment of a Christian Home" ritual for gay persons in committed relationships who are part of the faith community

Currently, only celibate gay people are ordained in the ELCA.

The congregation hosts A.A, O.A., and two lesbian support groups.

St. Luke's Church

County: Essex
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 73 S. Fullerton Avenue
Town: Montclair
State: NJ
Zip: 07042
Phone: (973) 764-6220
Fax: (973) 744-1722
Homepage: http://intac.com/~stluke

Description:
St. Luke's Church in Montclair has 300 members and is part of Integrity, an Episcopal gay organization. The congregation welcomes GLBT people and has gay members.

Same sex families are recognized as a family unit for purposes of membership. Gays are welcome to serve on the governing boards and as lay spiritual leaders. Both members of a same sex couple would be included in public ritual events.

Outreach includes A.A., Al-Anon, Parenting Skills, S.A, a food pantry, luncheon program, Thrift Shop, a Saturday series on faith issues, and youth programming.

The printed edition has an advert on page 112.

Montclair Monthly Meeting of the Religious

County: Essex
Religion: Society of Friends
Address: 289 Park Street
Town: Upper Montclair
State: NJ
Zip: 07043
Phone: (973) 744-8320
Homepage: http://friends.montclair.nj.us

Description:
The Montclair Society of Friends has 45 members in its congregation and is welcoming to all without restriction.

There are gay members in the Meeting and same sex families are recognized as family unit for the purposes of membership. Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people are welcome to serve on governing committees and work with religious education and youth.

Their Book of Discipline reads, "We seek to treat responsible, loving relationships tenderly and respectfully. We seek to hold each other in the light of our ideal that Spirit-filled covenant relationships are the one sure basis for love and sexuality."

Union Congregational Church

County: Essex
Religion: United Church of Christ
Address: 176 Cooper Avenue
Town: Montclair
State: NJ
Zip: 07043
Phone: (973) 744-7424
Fax: (973) 744-1364
Homepage: http://unioncong.org

Description:
Union Congregational Church in Montclair has 650 members and actively welcomes all people.

They are an Open & Affirming congregation of the United Church of Christ with gay members.

Same sex families are recognized as family units for purposes of membership. Gays are welcome to serve on governing boards, may be ritual leaders and may work as religious education teachers and with youth. Same sex couples are considered as a couple at public ritual events.

Outreach includes A.A. and Al-Anon meetings, and there is an emphasis on outreach, education and the arts.

First Unitarian Universalist Church of Essex County

County: Essex
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: 47 Cleveland St
Town: Orange
State: NJ
Zip: 07050
Phone: (973) 674-0010
Homepage: http://www.firstuu.essex.nj.uua.org

Description:
The First Unitarian Universalist Church of Essex County has 60 members and welcomes GLBT people. They have gay members and recognize same sex families as family units for membership and public rituals.

Gays may serve in leadership positions in ritual and education. The congregation reaches out to the community in gay newsletters and the media and press.

"First Unitarian Universalist welcomes all regardless of race, class, sexual orientation, or disability." ... "The First Unitarian Universalist Church of Essex County is by its nature a diverse congregation."

Outreach includes an after school program, Third Thursday discussion with the pastor, and Religious Education.

Same sex commitment ceremonies are allowed and gays can be ordained.

Parsippany United Methodist Church

County: Morris
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 903 South Beverwyck Road
Town: Parsippany
State: NJ
Zip: 07054
Phone: (973) 887-4657
Fax: (973) 886-4657

Description:
Parsippany United Methodist Church is 220 member congregation describes itself as actively welcoming, with a mission statement that speaks of "inclusion of all persons, regardless of sexual orientation." Same sex families are recognized as family units for membership. Gays are welcome to serve on the congregation's governing body and as ritual and youth program leaders.

The denomination does not permit same sex commitment ceremonies. A lesbian seminary student worked with the congregation for a year "leading small group discussions on issues of inclusion." The congregation hosts AA meetings. It sponsors an annual retreat in June for persons living with HIV/AIDS and their loved ones and caregivers.

Their mission statement includes ..."all are welcomed and valued regardless of race, age, sexual orientation, disability, gender, or economic status."

St Andrew Lutheran Church

County: Morris
Religion: Lutheran, Evangelical
Address: 335 Reynolds Ave.
Town: Parsippany
State: NJ
Zip: 07054
Phone: (973) 887-6713
Fax: (973) 887-5881
Email: elcaandy@aol.com

Description:
Saint Andrew Lutheran Church of 270 Baptized members is actively welcoming to gays, having become an RIC congregation and hoping to be included in the next GMAC Directory. Roughly half of the congregation is under 21 and the ministry is expanding. Same sex families are recognized as family units. Gays are welcome to serve on the governing body and as leaders in the spiritual and educational life of the congregation. "We are deeply grateful for the active membership of our gay members." The pastor will conduct same sex commitment ceremonies if requested.

"We are a small congregation with a well-balanced ministry that includes gays serving on the Church Council and as Team (committee) chairs and members. We take Christ seriously-but not ourselves. We like to try creative and fun approaches-we are warm and joyful."

First Presbyterian Church

County: Passaic
Religion: Presbyterian
Address: 15 Grove St
Town: Passaic
State: NJ
Zip: 07055

Description:
First Presbyterian Church in Passaic, NJ is a welcoming congregation.

St. John's Episcopal Church

County: Passaic
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 215 Lafayette Avenue
Town: Passaic
State: NJ
Zip: 07055
Phone: (973) 779-0966

Description:
Saint John's Episcopal Church in Passaic welcomes gays, lesbians and bisexuals.

Same sex families are recognized. All persons are eligible to serve on church governing boards. Gay persons are fully active at all levels.

Same sex commitment ceremonies are permissible if the couple is active in the church community.

"We are not an 'issues' church. Gay persons are fully active at all levels, not as gays but as members. We are a 'traditional worship' church."

Crescent Avenue Presbyterian Church

County: Union
Religion: Presbyterian (USA)
Address: 716 Watchung Ave.
Town: Plainfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07060
Phone: (908) 756-2468
Fax: (908) 756-3158
Homepage: http://www.capc.org

Description:
Crescent Avenue Presbyterian Church (USA), with a membership of 300, is located in Plainfield. All are warmly welcomed and encouraged to fully participate in the faith community of the congregation.

This congregation has gay members. Same sex families are recognized as family units for purposes of membership and at public rituals like baptisms, confirmations and funerals.

This denomination does permit same sex commitment ceremonies and the religious leader of the congregation is able to lead these services.

Outreach includes a weekday lunch program and A.A. The church also hosts music and art programs that serve the community.

Rahway Plainfield Religious Society of Friends

County: Union
Religion: Quaker
Address: 225 Watchung Avenue
Town: Plainfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07060

Description:
This congregation of 50 has a policy that "All are welcome." including gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people.

There are gay members in this congregation. All membership is decided on an individual basis. Every member is able to serve on governing boards and ritual and worship committees.

Members may be religious education teachers, read scripture and be youth program leaders.

Both members of gay couple would be included during funeral services.

This congregation has done programming to decrease hate speech and bias crimes.

The First Unitarian Society of Plainfield

County: Union
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: 724 Park Avenue
Town: Plainfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07060
Phone: (908) 756-0750
Homepage: http://www.fusp.org

Description:
We welcome all those who share our belief in the dignity and worth of every person, the importance of community, and the value of a free search for meaning in life. Here, we meet to support each other in our religious seeking, and work together to make the world a better place for all.

Our Society is a safe and nurturing environment. We are a welcoming congregation for LBGTI people. For over 100 years, our Society has united a diverse group of people in common interests and concerns. We come from varied religious and cultural backgrounds, yet we are bound together by broad principles that support each individual's search for truth and meaning.

Our Sunday services are diverse, offering a variety of approaches to spiritual growth. Most services are led by a minister, while others are led by members of our congregation. We enjoy coffee and conversation in the Parish Hall after the service. Newcomers are encouraged to visit the Welcoming Table.

To learn more about the Society, or about Unitarian-Universalism, please visit our website, www.fusp.org. There you will see the breadth and depth of our activities. These include adult religious education groups, such as the Women's Alliance and the Men's Breakfast, or the Simplicity Circle, and religious education for children too. The minister's sermons are also posted there.

United Church of Christ Congregational

County: Union
Religion: United Church of Christ
Address: 220 West Seventh Street
Town: Plainfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07060
Phone: (908) 755-8658
Fax: (908) 755-8658

Description:
This congregation of 130 is actively welcoming to the GLBT community. There are gay members who are welcome to serve as ritual and spiritual leaders. Both members of a same sex family would be included in public ritual events.

"Ours was one of the first radically integrated churches in Plainfield during the 1960's and we are becoming a multicultural congregation. The motto of the United Church of Christ, or denomination, is 'that all may be one' (John 17:11).

"All who follow Jesus Christ are invited to our fellowship and communion table, regardless of age, creed, cultural or ethnic background, mental or physical disability, gender orientation or marital status.

"Our denomination and church have long advocated the freedom of each person to interpret scripture and the meaning of salvation. Our church has been in the forefront of social change and justice in many areas."

Temple Sholom

County: Union
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 815 West Seventh St
Town: Plainfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07063
Phone: (908) 756-6447
Fax: (908) 756-7408
Homepage: http://www.sholomnj.org

Description:
Temple Shalom, a Reform congregation of 260 families in Plainfield, welcomes all persons regardless of race or sexual orientation to actively participate fully in the religious life and practice of Judaism.

The temple is actively welcoming to the GLBT community and wants this directory to be part of its outreach to the community. Sermons have urged the reduction of hate speech and bias crimes.

This denomination permits same sex commitment ceremonies and the Rabbi is willing to lead these rituals.

The denomination ordains openly gay people.

Outreach includes membership in a local faith-based housing network.

Second Presbyterian Church

County: Union
Religion: Presbyterian
Address: 1221 New Brunswick Ave.
Town: Rahway
State: NJ
Zip: 07065
Phone: (732) 388-1146
Fax: (732) 388-1143

Description:
The Second Presbyterian Church welcomes to membership and ministry all those "we believe have demonstrated dedicated and devoted lives" regardless of their sexual orientation. The congregation has put this policy in writing and sent it to the denomination's governing bodies. This is in contrast to the rules of the Presbyterian Church (USA), which at this time do not allow the ordination of sexually active gays and lesbians.

Gays, lesbians, bisexual and transgendered people are welcome to serve on governing boards. Same sex families are recognized as family units, and all may give service in any capacity open to members.

There is an annual AIDS service that includes the display of a portion of the quilt. There is a support group for probation counseling, and Food for Friends - which feeds 60-125 people weekly.

"We welcome all people."

Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church

County: Somerset
Religion: Presbyterian (USA)
Address: 170 Watchung Ave.
Town: North Plainfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07069
Phone: (908) 755-2781
Fax: (908) 756-7981
Homepage: http://www.wapc.net

Description:
Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church (USA) has 280 members and is located in North Plainfield. The church welcomes all persons in the gay community. All persons are able to participate fully in the life of the Church.

Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and would be considered by the Pastor.

There are gay members in this congregation and both members of a couple would be included for baptisms, confirmations, and funerals.

Adult classes are planned for discussing joining the Covenant Network, a Presbyterian gay affirming group.

Outreach includes a commitment to mission both locally and internationally. The church hosts A.A., Adoption Support, ESL beginner and intermediate classes, Mission Trips for youth and adults, a sister church in Dominican Republic, an After School Program, 2 Bible Study groups, and Women's Circles.

First Presbyterian & Trinity Church

County: Essex
Religion: Presbyterian (USA)
Address: 111 Irvington Avenue
Town: South Orange
State: NJ
Zip: 07079
Phone: (973) 762-7879
Fax: (973) 762-9465

Description:
The First Presbyterian and Trinity Church in South Orange was the first Presbyterian (USA) church in New Jersey to be designated as a More Light congregation in 1984. That commitment has been reaffirmed several times in the like of this congregation. It has a membership of 200.

It is actively welcoming of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered community. There are gay members. All members may serve on governing boards and same sex families are recognized as a family unit if it is their wish.

This congregation has had several programs on "Family" with the focus on love and commitment rather than marriage. It flies the Pride Flag in Gay Pride Week, and has an annual fund raiser to support those striken with A.I.D.S.

Community outreach includes hosting meetings of the local chapters of P-FLAG and GALY, as well as A.A.

Both the Mission Statement of the Church and the More Light Statement contain language that in welcoming and inclusive. "We engage in theological and inquiry and study. We strive to nurture each other on our faith journeys."

The printed edition has an advert on page 115.

Temple Sha'arey Shalom

County: Union
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 78 S. Springfield Ave.
Town: Springfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07081
Phone: (973) 379-5387
Fax: (973) 564-7516
Homepage: http://www.shaarey.org/

Description:
Temple Sha'aret Shalom with 420 families is located in Springfield and actively welcomes members of the gay community. All persons are encouraged to participate fully in the life of the synagogue. All may read the Torah, lead services and serve on the worship committee and as religious education and youth program leaders.

Same sex couples would be recognized as family units for the purpose of membership and in public ritual events like Honors, Baby Naming, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Aufruf, Anniversaries and funerals.

This denomination permits same sex commitment ceremonies and may be led by the Rabbi.

"Sha'aret Shalom warmly welcomes all people." We base ourselves on the philosophy of inclusion."

Unitarian Church of Summit

County: Union
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: 4 Waldron Avenue
Town: Summit
State: NJ
Zip: 07081
Phone: (908) 273-3245
Fax: (908) 273-3817
Homepage: http://www.ucsummit.org

Description:
The Unitarian Church in Summit has had Same Sex Commitment Ceremonies performed here, and a growing number of child naming ceremonies (baptisms) among same sex families.

There have been many forums on gay and lesbian issues. Programs have included Violence Against The Gay Community, Same Sex Marriage, PFLAG, and Nature/Nurture.

This church as spent 2 years preparing for UUA certification as a Welcoming Congregation and has taken the necessary vote, which overwhelmingly positive.

We are a place where "membership is without regard to race, ethnic background, affectional or sexual orientation or political persuasion - to all who find themselves in sympathy with our principles."

Outreach includes A.A.

Church of the Transfiguration

County: Morris
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 9 Two Bridges Road
Town: Towaco
State: NJ
Zip: 07082
Phone: (973) 334-5044
Fax: (973) 334-2882

Description:
The Church of the Transfiguration in Towaco is a "small" congregation and is a sponsoring parish of the Diocese of Newark. Oasis is a ministry to the GLBT community. The priest is gay, and gay members are active in the congregation. Gays participate fully in the religious life of the congregation and may serve on the governing board. Same sex families are regarded as family units. The denomination permits same sex commitment ceremonies and the priest will perform them. The facility hosts AA meetings. The congregation sponsors Journey to Adulthood Youth Programs, Outreach Ministries, and a nursery school.

"We are a congregation with an active youth program and many families with children. Gay families would be most welcome here. A gay person leads our youth program. We are not a place where being gay or gay issues are discussed much. Rather, we are a community where gay couples/families/singles will simply be welcomed and embraced like anyone else."

Temple Emanu-El

County: Union
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 756 East Broad Street
Town: Westfield
State: NJ
Zip: 07090
Phone: (908) 232-6770
Fax: (908) 233-3959
Homepage: http://westfieldnj.com/temple/

Description:
Temple Emanu-El, a Reform congregation is located in Westfield. This Temple of 1175 families is actively welcoming of GLBT people. All are welcomed to participate in the full religious life of the Temple.

Same sex families are recognized as family units for purposes of membership. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and may be conducted by the Rabbi.

The congregation reaches out to provide services to persons with AIDS. There are counseling services and financial support of camp for children living with AIDS.

"Temple Emanu-El welcomes anyone who would like to worship at our synagogue regardless of race, sexual orientation and gender."

Their mission statement includes, "freedom of sexual orientation."

Community Presbyterian Church

County: Union
Religion: Presbyterian (USA)
Address: 1459 Deer Path
Town: Mountainside
State: NJ
Zip: 07092
Phone: (908) 232-9490
Fax: (908) 232-9096

Description:
The Community Presbyterian Church (USA) with 325 members in Mountainside welcomes all, and all are permitted to serve on church boards and be ritual/spiritual leaders. There are some gay members.

Gays, lesbians, bisexual, and transgendered people may serve on the worship committee, distribute communion, read the scripture, and give service as deacons, religious education teachers and youth program leaders.

This denomination does permit same sex commitment ceremonies and the spiritual leader of the Church is able to conduct these services.

The congregation boasts a strong music program and has used the "Stand Against Hate" program.

Church of Our Saviour

County: Hudson
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 191 Flanagan Way (Rt 153)
Town: Secaucus
State: NJ
Zip: 07094
Phone: (201) 863-1449
Fax: (201) 863-1474
Homepage: http://www.secaucus.org/oursaviour

Description:
The Church of Our Savior in Secaucus, a 100 member Episcopal congregation, openly welcomes the gay community to join other current gay members in worship, and serve as ritual/spiritual leaders.

Both members of a couple are included in Confirmation and Funerals. Anti-racism training is available on our Website. The congregation also supports AIDS/outreach giving.

Our priest is gay and lives in a committed relationship with another Episcopal priest.

Group hosted by congregation: A.A.

Trinity Episcopal Church

County: Middlesex
Religion: Epsicopal
Address: 650 Rahway Avenue at Trinity Lane
Town: Woodbridge
State: NJ
Zip: 07095
Phone: (732) 634-7422
Fax: (732)634-7085
Email: integrity@trinitywoodbridge.org
Homepage: http://www.trinitywoodbridge.org

Description:
Trinity Church, Woodbridge prides itself on the warm, loving, family environment that has been established in the congregation. We are very open and inviting to all people, regardless of age, sex, creed, orientation. As a Christian body, we welcome all who cross our threshold and look forward to meeting the many people that visit us.

Trinity has gay members and is welcoming to same-sex families. They are a welcoming parish (Integrity). Welcoming to govern, as deacons, to lead services, perform readings, and so on. At this time they do not perform same-sex committment nor is their welcoming status listed in this mission statement. Other community services they provide include hosting support groups such as AA, NA, Nurses Support Group. They have a chapter of the Brotherhood of St. Andrew. We are a partner church with Integrity and are trying to form a chapter of Integrity as well. Transgendered people are welcome.

Grace Church of Newark

County: Essex
Religion: Episcopal/Anglican
Address: 950 Broad Street
Town: Newark
State: NJ
Zip: 07102
Phone: (973) 623-1733
Fax: (973) 622-1222

Description:
Grace Church in Newark has 150 members and is actively welcoming to gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered individuals.

The congregation is a member of Oasis, the Episcopal group for the gay community.

Grace Church has gay members who are welcome to serve on committees and give service. Same sex families are recognized as family units and are included as families in public rituals.

The denomination ordains openly gay people and the local bishop is working on same sex commitment ceremonies.

"We are a racially, economically diverse community of people, straight and gay, and the oldest Anglo-Catholic parish in the Diocese of Newark. The music is the best of our tradition, supported by a 150-year-old men and boys choir."

Calvary Evangelical Lutheran Church

County: Union
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 1482 Maple Avenue
Town: Hillside
State: NJ
Zip: 07205
Phone: (973) 923-9321

Description:
Calvary Evangelical Lutheran Church, with a membership of 85, is in Hillside. "Our synod will be doing a year of study intending to result in our become a Reconciling in Christ synod. Our congregation will be going through the same process - with the expectation at our Annual Meeting in January 2002 that we will vote to be a Reconciling in Christ congregation."

They participated in 'Stamp Out Hate' Sunday.

Some members are gay and are welcomed to serve on the governing boards. They are also able to serve as ritual and spiritual leaders.

Same sex commitment ceremonies will be conducted; however, the denomination does not condone the practice.

St Paul Lutheran

County: Union
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 83 Galloping Hill Road
Town: Elizabeth
State: NJ
Zip: 07208
Phone: (908) 351-0294
Homepage: http://www.lutheransonline.com/lu/stpaulelizabeth

Description:
Saint Paul Lutheran Church, in the city of Elizabeth with a membership of about 100, welcomes all persons to be active members in the parish community. All are able to serve on parish boards, be involved in the ritual life of the church and serve as spiritual leaders.

The denomination does not permit same sex commitment ceremonies, but the Pastor is open to discussing such ceremonies.

"St. Paul's is a church in transition moving from a congregation closed in on itself to a congregation open to and actively involved in its community. While this process is still in its infancy and moving slowly, it is gaining momentum. As we reach out and open up, we welcome all people to join us, accepting them as sisters and brothers in Christ."

Outreach includes hosting two A.A. groups.

St. Matthew Evangelical Lutheran Church

County: Hudson
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 85 Wayne Street
Town: Jersey City
State: NJ
Zip: 07302
Phone: (201) 432-9319

Description:
St. Matthew Evangelical Lutheran Church in Jersey City,

a 95-member congregation, has gay members and is open to gays, lesbians and transgendered persons. Opportunities for service include worship committee, serving Holy Communion, reading scripture and leading services.

Members of a couple are included in participation of anniversaries, Baptism, Confirmation, and Funerals. The congregation provides monthly grocery bags to "Hyacinth Foundation" for eligible clients.

Groups hosted by congregation: AA and NA at Barrow Mansion - building next to church on 83 Wayne St.

All Nations Lutheran Church

County: Hudson
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 432 West Side Avenue
Town: Jersey City
State: NJ
Zip: 07304
Phone: (201) 432-1050
Fax: (201) 333-6254

Description:
All Nations Lutheran Church in Jersey City, a 35-40-member congregation, reaches out to gays by personal contact and networking. Same sex families are recognized for membership. Gays are welcome to serve on the governing councils, boards, etc. They are also able to serve as spiritual leaders on the worship committee, serve Holy Communion, become religious education teachers, read scripture, and work as program and service leaders.

Both members of a couple would be included in anniversaries, Baptism, Confirmation, and funerals. The congregation has sponsored a program in regard to congregational discussion on becoming "Reconciling in Christ."

There is AIDS support through a Buddies Program and other local AIDS support programs. All gays are welcome to our place of worship.

Members who struggle with pressing economic needs are part of this diverse congregation. This congregation has issues different from traditional or middle class congregations in welcoming the gay community.

St. Paul the Apostle

County: Hudson
Religion: Roman Catholic
Address: 14 Greenville Ave.
Town: Jersey City
State: NJ
Zip: 07305
Phone: (201) 433-8500
Fax: (201) 433-9886
Homepage: http://http://stpaultheapostle.8M.com

Description:
St. Paul the Apostle, with 1300 families, does not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. All members are welcome to serve on the governing board, parish committees, and serve as liturgical ministers without distinction.

Decreasing hate is mentioned in homilies and in "Stamp Out Hate" Sunday. A.A. meets here Monday and Friday nights.

"At St. Paul's we welcome everyone and promote inclusion of all. ...We at St. Paul's accept everyone and confront anyone who shows any discrimination."

Grace Lutheran Church

County: Hudson
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 982 Summit Avenue
Town: Jersey City
State: NJ
Zip: 07307
Phone: (201) 653-5311

Description:
Grace Lutheran Church in Jersey City, a 98-member congregation, actively welcomes the gay community to its house of worship. The congregation currently has gay members and reaches out to others through Gay organization newsletters, via a prominently displayed Rainbow flag, and by "speaking out."

Same sex families are recognized. Gays are able to serve as ritual/spiritual leaders. Both members of a couple can participate in Anniversaries, Baptism, Confirmation, and funerals. The congregation is actively involved in the Lutherans Concerned - Reconciling in Christ program, and does programming on hate speech/bias crimes by way of newsletters, sermons, and conversation.

Support for persons with AIDS is through "Project Hugs" a support group for people infected and affected by HIV/AIDS, and N.J. Women and AIDS Network, a peer counseling program for minority women with HIV.

Groups hosted by congregation: HIV support group on Monday 7:00 - 9:00 pm, and N.J. Women and AIDS Network - daily.

Church of the Epiphany

County: Bergen
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 55 George Street
Town: Allendale
State: NJ
Zip: 07401
Phone: (201) 327-3012
Fax: (201) 327-3012

Description:
The Church Of The Epiphany congregation of 120 reaches out to gays and lesbians via personal relationships and word of mouth. Although the church has no programs specifically concerning gays, ongoing diversity training classes are provided by church members and by the diocese.

The congregation ordains gays, performs same sex commitment ceremonies, and recognizes same sex families as family units for purposes of membership. Gays and lesbians are welcome by the Church of the Epiphany to serve on governing bodies, to act as ritual leaders, and to participate fully in the life of the church.

Episcopal Church of the Atonement

County: Bergen
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 1-36 30th St. PO Box 2565
Town: Fair Lawn
State: NJ
Zip: 07410
Phone: (201) 797-0760

Description:
Episcopal Church Of The Atonement, a community of 70+ members, includes several gays. They are welcome to participate fully in the government and the ritual life of the church. The congregation has participated in "Integrity" and has reached out to gays by word of mouth.

The actively gay may be ordained and may be united in same sex commitment ceremonies. Same sex families are recognized as units for membership.

As a community service, the church hosts seven Gam-Anon meetings per week.

Temple Avoda

County: Bergen
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 10-10 Plaza Road
Town: Fair Lawn
State: NJ
Zip: 07410
Phone: (201) 797-9716
Fax: (201) 797-4831
Homepage: http://avoda.com

Description:
Temple Avoda, a Reform temple of 175 member units does not have a specific program for supporting gays but would welcome them to attend worship, read the Torah, and lead services when appropriate. Although the denomination permits ordination of gays and same sex commitment ceremonies, the rabbi would not conduct the latter.

The temple has a religious school program regarding HIV/AIDS and personal responsibility toward the sick. It also provides a recurring message to the children about decreasing hate speech and bias crimes.

United Methodist Church at Newfoundland

County: Passaic
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 66 La Rue Road
Town: Newfoundland
State: NJ
Zip: 07435
Phone: (973) 697-2877
Fax: (973) 697-8715

Description:
The United Methodist Church located in Newfoundland actively welcomes all members of the gay community. As members of their faith community all are able to serve as ritual leaders, on the worship committee, as religious education and youth program leader. All are also welcome to serve Holy Communion and lead services.

This denomination does not permit same sex commitment ceremonies.

The congregation reaches out on a local level to provide financial support to persons with AIDS. Outreach also includes a grief support group.

The printed edition has an advert on page 113.

Christ Church

County: Bergen
Religion: Episcopal
Address: Franklin Ave & Cottage Place
Town: Ridgewood
State: NJ
Zip: 07450
Phone: (201) 652-2350
Fax: (201) 652-3644
Homepage: http://christridgewood.org

Description:
This Episcopal congregation includes a population of LGBT parishioners of between 30-40 LGBT adults and includes gay/lesbian individuals, couples and families in addition to many parents and friends of LGBT individuals. In addition to flying the Rainbow Flag for more than seven years and being a founding member church of Oasis, Christ Church Ridgewood is also proud to have been the parish where now Bishop V Gene Robinson began his career as an ordained member of the Episcopal clergy. LGBT members are integrated into all aspects of parish life - from lay readers to Vestry, from Adult Bible Study to Sunday School Teachers. The church has welcomed nearly a dozen children of same - sex couples at baptism services with the full congregation pledging their support. Christ Church Choir and Stonewall Chorale have produced several joint concerts (and share the same music director). The church is now exploring the creation of an LGBT ministry to strengthen and share their experience as a fully inclusive congregation.

The printed edition has an advert on page 114.

Church of the Good Shephard

County: Sussex
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 200 Route 23
Town: Wantage
State: NJ
Zip: 07461
Phone: (973) 875-0919
Fax: (973) 875-1019

Description:
The Church of the Good Shepherd, an Episcopalian community of 180 located in Wantage, has gay/lesbian persons in the congregation. Gays and lesbians serve as full members of the Church and are included in all liturgies. The priest has blessed committed relationships.

Outreach includes supporting Oasis (an Episcopalian gay group), planning a soup kitchen, and working with the poor of the community through several channels.

"Sussex [County] is much less welcoming of gays and lesbians - especially within Christian communities. We need to get the word out that everyone is welcomed at the Church of the Good Shepherd.

Christ Church, Episcopal

County: Bergen
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 251 State Street
Town: Hackensack
State: NJ
Zip: 07601
Phone: (201) 342-2365
Fax: (201) 342-8938
Homepage: http://www.Christchurchhackensack.org

Description:
This community of 200 numbers many gay people among its membership. Led by a partnered gay Rector, the congregation has taken part in the "Integrity" program in its commitment to become a community, which actively welcomes gays.

The church reaches out to the gay community via newsletter and website and has sponsored numerous programs on gay issues. All gays are accorded full participation in the life of the church, may be ordained, and may be united in same sex commitment ceremonies. Church members reach out to the gay community via gatherings, services and support for those with AIDS.

The community hosts an AA meeting, has outreach to the homeless, and works with children.

The printed edition includes this advert:

Leonia United Methodist Church

County: Bergen
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 396 Broad Avenue
Town: Leonia
State: NJ
Zip: 07605
Phone: (201) 944-2970
Fax: (201) 944-3123

Description:
The Leonia United Methodist Church numbers 1 - 10 gay people among its 200 members. Although the church has not actively reached out to the gay community, its pastor has addressed the issues of hate speech and bias crimes in sermons.

While the church does not ordain openly gay people, they are welcome to serve in other leadership roles and to participate in ritual events.

The pastor sees the church as, "welcoming without a fuss...building a core for a springboard to begin ministry."

Presbyerian Church in Leonia

County: Bergen
Religion: Presbyterian (USA)
Address: 181 Fort Lee Road
Town: Leonia
State: NJ
Zip: 07605
Phone: (201) 944-1358
Fax: (201) 944-6812
Homepage: http://www.presbyleonia.org

Description:
The Presbyterian Church (USA) in Leonia is a warm and welcoming congregation that embraces newcomers.

This church includes several gays among its 130 members. They may serve on committees, as religious education teachers, and as youth ministers. GLBT people may read the scripture and lead services. Gays in the Presbyterian Church (USA) may be ordained if celibate.

The pastor would be willing to conduct a same sex commitment service.

The church hosts Al-Anon meetings and supports a shelter for abused women, an Asian Outreach Ministry, and various food programs.

Reconstructionist Temple Beth Israel

County: Bergen
Religion: Jewish (Reconstructionist)
Address: 34 West Magnolia Ave.
Town: Maywood
State: NJ
Zip: 07607
Phone: (201) 845-7550
Fax: (201) 845-6075
Homepage: http://www.concentric.net/~rtbi

Description:
"Jewish Tradition with Contemporary Observance"

Reconstructionist Temple Beth Israel with a community of 70 family units, seeks to create a "warm, welcoming and embracing atmosphere." They reach out to the gay community by being "open and inclusive, and embracing diversity." There are 1 - 10 gay members who participate fully in the life of the temple, serving on governing boards and participating in ritual worship.

Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and same sex couples are recognized as member units. The congregation "are committed to social action projects dealing with all disadvantaged people or groups and are concerned with environmental issues." They would love to welcome the Jewish gay community, and in fact, are "looking for assistance in reaching the gay community in and around Bergen County."

First Congregational Church

County: Bergen
Religion: United Church of Christ
Address: Corner of Harringcorner of Harrington Ave and West St
Address2: PO Box 111
Town: Closter
State: NJ
Zip: 07624
Phone: (201) 768-7285
Email: fcclostr@worldnet.att.net
Homepage: http://fcclostr.home.att.net

Description:
The First Congregational Church community of 25 people has participated in the "Open and Affirming" program offered by the United Church of Christ in order to become a community which actively welcomes gays.

Although the church does not currently have gay members, it would welcome gays and accord them full participation in the life of the church, including ordination and recognition of same sex families as family units for membership. The minister would conduct same sex commitment ceremonies.

The church previously sponsored a program on Gay and Lesbian Alternative Ministry and includes reference to sexual orientation in their faith statement and in their outreach materials.

St. Andrew's Episcopal Church

County: Bergen
Religion: Episcopal
Address: Lynn St & LaRoche Ave.
Town: Harrington Park
State: NJ
Zip: 07640
Phone: (201) 768-0819

Description:
St. Andrew's Episcopal Church actively welcomes gay members to attend and to participate fully in the government and spiritual leadership of their church. They have taken part in "Integrity" and reach out to gays via OASIS Eucharistic services.

Gays may be ordained and may be united in same sex commitment ceremonies. Same sex families will be recognized as family units for the purpose of membership.

St Paul's Lutheran Church

County: Bergen
Religion: Lutheran/Christian
Address: 61 Church Street
Town: Teaneck
State: NJ
Zip: 07666
Phone: (201) 837-3189
Fax: (201) 837-1405

Description:
St. Paul's Lutheran Church with 200 members, actively welcomes Gays. Same sex families are recognized, and gays serve on governing bodies and as ritual and spiritual leaders although the Lutheran church does not currently ordain openly gay people. The denomination is currently conflicted about performing same sex commitment ceremonies, but the church and its pastor would be willing.

The church hosts a variety of community support groups including a Lesbian support group. St. Paul's was the first meeting place for N.J. Buddies, an outreach group to provide service for persons with AIDS.

Sunday Worship Services are at 8:30 and 10:30AM, or 9:30AM during the summer.

Prince of Peace Lutheran Church

County: Bergen
Religion: Lutheran
Address: 106 Orangeburg Road
Town: Old Tappan
State: NJ
Zip: 07675
Phone: (201) 768-8691
Fax: (201) 768-7064
Homepage: http://www.princeofpeacenj.org

Description:
Prince Of Peace Lutheran Church is congregation of 304 members, some of whom are gay. Their denomination permits ordination of gays who are celibate. Although there has been no formal outreach to the gay community, both the pastor and key lay people are open to welcoming "gays who would be willing to risk loving us and living among us and teaching us."

The church participates in programs to fight homelessness and local and world hunger, and supports the New Jersey Synod/ELCA in its outreach to persons with AIDS.

Episcopal Church of the Holy Communion

County: Monmouth
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 7 Church St.
Town: Fair Haven
State: NJ
Zip: 07704
Phone: (732) 747-4671
Fax: (732) 741-5102

Description:
The Episcopal Church of the Holy Communion has 60-70 members and is in Fair Haven.

The present Vicar is an openly gay man and his congregation would welcome GLBT people. There are gay members at this church and same sex families are recognized as family units for membership.

Gays are welcome to serve on governing boards and give service in all areas of the church. Gay Pride Week was mentioned in the sermon.

The denomination decides by diocese who to ordain and same sex commitment ceremonies are sometimes permitted. The Vicar would perform them.

This church is "a small, warm, welcoming parish family with weekly services and some parish activities."

Mission Statement: "...who strive to reach out in Christ's name, offering love, acceptance, and a place of joy and connectedness to any and all. And we do mean ALL!"

Atonement Lutheran Church

County: Monmouth
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: First Ave & Heck St.
Town: Asbury Park
State: NJ
Zip: 07712
Phone: (732) 776-5727
Fax: (732) 776-5727
Homepage: http://www.geocities.com/atonementnj

Description:
Atonement Lutheran Church (ELCA) is a congregation of 332 baptized in Asbury Park.

The Synod, of which this church is a member, decided at its Synod Assembly in the spring of 2001 to undertake a yearlong study on becoming a Reconciling In Christ Synod.

Mission Statement: "...As an inclusive, loving, and caring congregation, we reach out to those around us to enrich our spiritual vitality and cohesiveness and to further Christ's ministry of preaching, teaching, and healing."

First United Methodist Church of Asbury Park

County: Monmouth
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 906 Grand Ave.
Town: Asbury Park
State: NJ
Zip: 07712
Phone: (732) 755-2693
Fax: (732) 775-5970

Description:
The First United Methodist Church of Asbury Park has a membership of 150.

It "...is a church in transition. The governing board voted one year ago to become intentional about inclusivity of the GLBT community. As a result, 75% of the new membership is gay and lesbian. New people have become leaders in the church and are helping to shape its future..."

"The pastor and leadership do not agree with the denominational stance on same sex ceremonies, ordination, etc. and are working toward change..."

There has been a series on "Homosexuality, Religion and Life." There is an annual AIDS retreat. Other outreach includes Circle of Friends (a diverse spirituality group), A.A., and N.A.

Monmouth Reform Temple

County: Monmouth
Religion: Jewish
Address: 332 Hance Ave.
Town: Tinton Falls
State: NJ
Zip: 07724
Phone: (732) 747-9365
Fax: (732) 747-9770
Email: mrt@monmouth.com

Description:
The Monmouth Reform Temple has a membership of 370 families and is in Tinton Falls.

The congregation actively welcomes GLBT people and has gone through a process to be a welcoming temple. "We are an inclusive community, opening doors to Jewish life for all who strive to create a Jewish home."

There are gay members and same sex families are recognized as family units for the purpose of membership. Gays are welcome to give service in all areas of temple life and both members of a couple would be included in Honors, Baby Naming, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, anniversaries, and funerals.

An assistant district attorney spoke at Shabbat services about reducing hate and bias crimes. The temple supports The Center in Asbury Park.

Same sex commitment ceremonies are allowed and the rabbi will perform them.

United Methodist Church of Red Bank

County: Monmouth
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 247 Broad Street
Town: Red Bank
State: NJ
Zip: 07724
Phone: (732) 747-0446
Fax: (732) 530-5715
Homepage: http://www.gbqm-umc.org/umcredbank

Description:
The United Methodist Church in Red Bank has a membership of 950.

The congregation has gay members and same sex couples are recognized as family units for the purpose of membership. GLBT people may serve in all areas.

The church has had programming on gay issues. There was a seminar titled, "Living Non-violently in a Violent World" and "Sexual Ethics." The program "Igniting Ministries" began in September 2001.

Many support groups meet at the church. The church reaches out through its staff and with its finances to support those with AIDS.

"This is a welcoming church. Our vision statement is, 'A church with open doors empowered by God's love to be a Christ like community, reaching out in ministry and service.'"

Everyone is welcome at this church.

Temple Beth Miriam

County: Monmouth
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: Box 2097
Town: Elberon
State: NJ
Zip: 07740
Phone: (732) 222-3754
Fax: (732) 222-1238
Homepage: http://bethmiriam.org

Description:
Temple Beth Miriam is a Reform temple with 350 members in Elberon.

It is welcoming to GLBT people and has gone through a process to be actively welcoming.

There are gay members in the congregation and same sex couples are recognized as family units for purposes of membership. Gays are welcome to serve on the governing boards, the worship committee, and as religious education teachers. They may read the Torah and lead services.

Both members of a gay couple would be included in Honors, Baby Naming, Bar/Bas Mitzvah, and Aufruf.

The denomination permits ordaining openly gay people. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and the rabbi will conduct them.

Everyone is welcome at Temple Beth Miriam.

Temple Rodeph Torah

County: Monmouth
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 13 Mohawk Drive
Town: Marlboro
State: NJ
Zip: 07746
Phone: (732) 308-0055
Homepage: http://www.trt.org

Description:
Temple Rodeph Torah, a medium sized Reform Temple, is in Marlboro.

It is has gay members and same sex families are recognized as family units for purposes of membership.

The denomination permits same sex commitment ceremonies and the rabbi will conduct them.

Gays may serve on the governing boards and worship committee; they may read from the Torah and lead services. They may also serve as religious education teachers and as youth program leaders.

"Rabbi Weber welcomes calls or inquiries from Jews looking for a welcoming community, and offers his assistance wherever possible."

Temple Shalom of Aberdeen

County: Monmouth
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 5 Ayrmont Lane
Town: Aberdeen
State: NJ
Zip: 07747
Phone: (732) 566-2621
Fax: (732) 566-4185

Description:
Temple Shalom, worshiping in the Reform Jewish tradition, is in Aberdeen.

The congregation is actively welcoming to GLBT people and has some gay members.

Same sex couples are recognized as family units for purposes of membership. Gays are welcome to serve on the governing boards, the worship committee, and as religious education teachers. They may read the Torah and lead services.

Both members of a gay couple would be included in Honors, Baby Naming, Bar/Bas Mitzvah, Aufruf, anniversaries, and funerals.

The denomination permits ordaining openly gay people. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and the rabbi will conduct them.

Trinity Church

County: Monmouth
Religion: Episcopal/Anglican
Address: Ryders Lane
Town: Matawan
State: NJ
Zip: 07747
Phone: (732) 591-9210
Fax: (732) 591-0670
Homepage: http://Trinityepiscopalmatawan.com

Description:
Trinity Church in the Episcopal-Anglican tradition has a membership of about 500 members and is in Matawan.

It is welcoming to the GLBT community and has gay members. It is a congregation that supports Integrity, the Episcopal support group for the gay community.

Trinity Church reaches out through parishioners and networking. They have had a program on the nature of prejudice and assist those with AIDS on an individual basis.

Same sex families are recognized as family units. All are welcome to serve in the ritual and spiritual life of the community. Gays may serve on the worship committee, read scripture, serve Holy Communion, and lead services. They may be deacons, priests, religious education teachers, and youth program leaders. Both members of a couple will be included at public rituals.

The denomination does not permit same sex commitment ceremonies and the rector will perform them privately only with the permission of the bishop.

Outreach includes A.A. an O.A. meetings.

"All are welcome" at Trinity Church.

King of Kings

County: Monmouth
Religion: Lutheran
Address: 250 Harmony Road
Town: Middletown
State: NJ
Zip: 07748
Phone: (732) 671-3348
Fax: (732) 706-5531

Description:
King of Kings Lutheran Church has a membership of around 900 and is in Middletown.

Mission Statement: "That all may know Christ and become responsible members of His Church..."

This congregation has between 10 and 20 gay members. The welcoming message is given from the pulpit and spread by word of mouth.

Same sex families are recognized as family units. All are welcome to serve in the ritual and spiritual life of the community. Gays may serve on the worship committee, read scripture, serve Holy Communion, and lead services. They may be deacons, religious education teachers, and youth program leaders.

Outreach includes Milk for Mothers, AIDS groups in N.Y.C., two Al-Anon meetings, and groups for parents with autistic children.

Old First Church

County: Monmouth
Religion: American Baptist Church & United Church of Christ
Address: 69 Kings Highway
Town: Middletown
State: NJ
Zip: 07748
Phone: (732) 671-1905
Fax: (732) 671-6969
Email: oldfirst1688@cs.com

Description:
Old First Church, a 75-member congregation of the American Baptist (ABC) and United Church of Christ, is in Middletown.

This faith community actively welcomes GLBT people and is affiliated with Open & Affirming (UCC) and Welcoming and Affirming (ABC). There are gay members.

Same sex families are recognized as family units. All are welcome to serve in the ritual and spiritual life of the community. Gays may serve on the worship committee, read scripture, serve Holy Communion, and lead services. They may be deacons, religious education teachers, and youth program leaders.

Both members of a couple are included in public rituals.

Redeemer Church

County: Monmouth
Religion: Lutheran ELCA
Address: 3531 State Route 33
Town: Neptune
State: NJ
Zip: 07753
Phone: (732) 922-2757
Homepage: http://www.redeemchurch.org

Description:
This congregation welcomes GLBT people and is a Reconciling in Christ church. There are gays in the congregation. We have evangelical catholic worship, a youth group, and Sunday School.

Same sex families are recognized as family units. All are welcome to serve in the ritual and spiritual life of the community. Gays may serve on the worship committee, read scripture, serve Holy Communion, and lead services. They may be deacons, religious education teachers, and youth program leaders.

We have had a forum on gay/lesbian issues, an AIDS task group, and host A.A.

Mission Statement: "We invite you to join us as we follow Jesus Christ, seeking to embrace and include people of every age, race, gender, marital status, ability, and sexual orientation."

The printed edition has an advert on page 112.

St Luke's Episcopal Church

County: Warren
Religion: Episcopal
Address: PO Box 292
Town: Hope
State: NJ
Zip: 07844
Phone: (908) 469-4340
Fax: (908) 459-4923
Homepage: http://www.retechnologies.com/stlukes

Description:
St. Luke's Episcopal Church, with 170 members, has gay members who are recognized as family units, are welcome to serve on the church's governing boards and would be included as a couple in all public rituals.

Gays and lesbians may serve on the worship committee, serve Holy Communion, read scripture and lead services. They may serve as religious education teachers, deacons, and youth program leaders.

St. Luke's has had an anti-racism training program.

The Episcopalian denomination permits same sex commitment ceremonies and the Rector is willing to perform them. Everyone is welcome.

Temple Shalom

County: Morris
Religion: Jewish
Address: 215 South Hillside Avenue
Town: Succasunna
State: NJ
Zip: 07876
Phone: (973) 584-5666
Fax: (973) 584-1674

Description:
Temple Shalom, a 500 family congregation, actively welcomes gays to serve on its governing body and to participate in all aspects of its religious life.

The rabbi will conduct same sex commitment ceremonies. Same sex families are recognized as family units for membership purposes. The congregation offers special services with gay speakers and has invited gay speakers to speak to teens about hate crimes.

Outreach to persons with AIDS includes the Angel Connection Building Restoration and a Buddy Program.

Christ Church

County: Union
Religion: United Church of Christ & American Baptist
Address: 561 Springfield Avenue
Town: Summit
State: NJ
Zip: 07901
Phone: (908) 273-5549
Fax: (908) 273-4140
Homepage: http://CHRISTCHURCHSummit.org

Description:
Christ Church in Summit has 550 members and actively welcomes gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered people.

It is a member of "Open & Affirming" in the United Church of Christ, and "Welcome & Affirming" in the American Baptist Churches.

There are gay members in this congregation who are welcome to serve on governing boards and the worship committee. They may serve Holy Communion, read scripture, and be religious education teachers, youth program leaders. Same sex couples are recognized as family units; both members of the couple would be included for public rituals.

Social action includes Bridges- Homeless Out Reach program.

St. Bernard's Episcopal Church

County: Somerset
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 88 Clarement Road
Town: Bernardsville
State: NJ
Zip: 07924
Phone: (908) 766-0602
Fax: (908) 766-0696

Description:
St Bernard's Episcopal Church with 350 members in Bernardsville welcomes all persons to join the faith community. Gay families are counted as family units for membership purposes. All are able to fully participate in the governing body of the parish, be on ritual teams and serve as spiritual leaders.

The Parish Community reaches out and supports the Eric Johnson House.

Brookside Community Church

County: Morris
Religion: United Church of Christ
Address: 8 East Main Street
Town: Brookside
State: NJ
Zip: 07926
Phone: (973) 543-7229
Fax: (973) 543-4617
Homepage: http://brooksidechurch.org

Description:
This 250-member congregation is now open and affirming.

Same sex families are recognized as family units for membership. Gays are welcome to serve on the governing body and to participate fully in all aspects of the religious life of the congregation. During the last two years, the congregation has sponsored sermons and discussions on homosexuality in the Bible, the O&A process and "who is welcome at our table." They are planning a discussion with PFLAG, a gay choir performance, and a nature vs. nurture conversation in the fall.

The denomination does ordain openly gay people, and the congregation permits and conducts same sex commitment ceremonies. The youth group serves dinner at Eric Johnson House and the congregation provides lunch at Hope House for World AIDS Day. They host PFLAG Morris County.

Walter Schubert, a prominent leader in the gay rights movement and community (first openly gay member of the NY Stock Exchange, former member of the national PFLAG board, etc.) has said of Brookside: "finding the church has been the most important discovery my partner Carl and I have made in our relationship. We have been greeted there with open arms, have been nurtured spiritually, and feel fully welcomed and included in a faith community for the first times in our lives."

Summit Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends

County: Morris
Religion: Quaker
Address: 158 Southern Boulevard
Town: Chatham
State: NJ
Zip: 07928
Phone: (973) 635-2161

Description:
Summit Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends is a 135-member congregation meets for worship in Chatham on Sundays at 11:00 am (10:00 am in July and August).

"We welcome everyone regardless of sexual orientation. There is no specific outreach to any one group."

The facility is used frequently by a Reconstructionist Jewish Congregation and often rented to peace action groups.

Adult membership is always individual. All members and active attendees are encouraged to serve on committees. All are included in the spiritual life and the public events of the congregation. "The best source for understanding our faith community, including our position on equality and sexual orientation, is 'Faith and Practice,' the Book of Discipline of the New York Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends."

Barnegat Friends Meeting

County: Ocean
Religion: Quaker
Address: PO Box 32
Town: Barnegat
State: NJ
Zip: 07934
Phone: (609) 698-2058

Description:
Barnegat Friends Meeting, a Religious Society of Friends' congregation meets in an old, historic meetinghouse in Ocean County, and the site includes a historic cemetery.

Consisting of approximately 30 members, the congregation is open and welcoming to the gay and transgendered community. Same sex families are recognized as family units for purposes of membership. All members are encouraged to assume leadership roles in the worship service, governing body and committees, educational and youth programs. The denomination permits same sex commitment ceremonies and commitment ceremonies are celebrated here.

Yearly meeting activities include programs specific to the transgendered community. The congregation partners with other churches to provide support and services to persons with AIDS. It also provides the local elementary school with emergency needs.

St. Luke's Episcopal Church

County: Somerset
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 182 Main Street
Town: Gladstone
State: NJ
Zip: 07934
Phone: (908) 234-0002
Fax: (908) 234-1946

Description:
Saint Luke's Episcopal Church, while not actively engaged in a special program that welcomes GLBT people, is welcoming to all in the community and does have parishioners who are gay and lesbian. All are able to participate on governing boards and to serve by serving Holy Communion, reading scripture, and working as religious education and youth program leaders.

Same sex commitment ceremonies are not permitted.

The Church supports the Eric Johnson House in Morristown and the AIDS clinic. Outreach includes hosting an A.A. meeting.

Morristown Unitarian Fellowship

County: Morris
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: 127 Normany Heights Road
Town: Morristown
State: NJ
Zip: 07960
Phone: (973) 540-1177
Fax: (973) 539-8218
Homepage: http://www.muuf.org

Description:
The Morristown Unitarian Fellowship is a 330 member congregation is "actively welcoming," recognizes same sex families as family units, and welcomes gays to serve on the governing body and in all aspects of the ritual and educational life of the congregation.

The congregation has sponsored "Our Whole Lives," a program of sexuality education for junior high students, includes discussion about gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered persons. An Adult Education series focused on "Weaving the Fabric of Diversity." In July 2000, the congregation participated in the community's "Celebrate Diversity" event. The Gay Activist Alliance of Morris County meets at this facility.

The denomination does ordain openly gay people and permits same sex commitment ceremonies; the spiritual leader will conduct those ceremonies. The Fellowship's bylaws include the statement: "In all of our activities we encourage the full participation of everyone without regard to ... sexual orientation."

Unitarian Universalist Gloucester County Congregation

County: Gloucester
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: PO Box 8214
Town: Turnersville
State: NJ
Zip: 08012
Phone: (856) 232-0001

Description:
The Unitarian Universalist Gloucester County Congregation of approximately 35 members provides "to people of all ages a caring, sharing, and nurturing community, which promotes spiritual growth along with intellectual freedom..."

The congregation is open to the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community. The Unitarian Universalist denomination ordains openly gay persons. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and performed here; same sex families are recognized as family units for membership purposes. All members are invited to take part in the life of the congregation.

The congregation has sponsored programs that focused on peace and justice issues. The congregation supports a ministry to the severely and persistently mentally ill community.

Unitarian Universalist Church in Cherry Hill

County: Camden
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: 401 North Kings Highway
Town: Cherry Hill
State: NJ
Zip: 08034
Phone: (856) 667-3618
Fax: (856) 667-9552

Description:
The Unitarian Universalist Church in Cherry Hill has about 400 members.

"We, as a Unitarian Universalist community, gather to worship, celebrate life, grow spiritually, seek truth, experience fellowship, serve others and strive to build a just society. We provide sanctuary for the expression of individuality and welcome all who value and honor the richness of diversity."

All members may participate in church life as worship leaders, committee members, teachers, and youth leaders. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted by the Unitarian Universalist denomination and are performed here. Same sex families are recognized as a family unit.

The congregation hosts a chapter of "Interweave," which is dedicated to the spiritual, social and political well-being of Unitarian Universalist lesbians, gay men, bisexual and transgendered persons and their heterosexual allies. The congregation recognizes the "National Right to Marry Sunday" and "Gay Pride Sunday."

First Baptist Church

County: Burlington
Religion: American Baptist Church USA
Address: 19 West Main Street
Town: Moorestown
State: NJ
Zip: 08057
Phone: (856-235-1180)
Fax: (856-778-5458)

Description:
First Baptist Church is a congregation of 160 that welcomes the gay community and reaches out by word of mouth. The church has gay members. Same sex couples are included as a family unit in the church directory and the pictorial directory. Both members of the couple would be included in baptisms and funerals.

Gays and lesbians are able to serve on the worship committee, read scripture, and lead services. They may serve Holy Communion, and be religious education teachers and youth leaders.

The congregation supports the AIDS Walk and there was a book study on Stranger At the Gate.

Some individual congregations will perform same sex commitment ceremonies and the minister will put such couples in contact with another ABC USA clergy person who will perform such ceremonies.

Although the mission statement does not specifically include a reference to sexual orientation, it does describe the congregation as "an open, joyful, and seeking community of faith."

Outreach includes an A.A. meeting and a nurses' support group.

Spirit of Hope Lutheran Church

County: Camden
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 74 East Kings Highway
Town: Mt. Ephraim
State: NJ
Zip: 08059
Phone: (856) 931-4746
Fax: (856) 931-7133
Homepage: http://community.nj.com/cc/spiritofhope

Description:
Spirit of Hope is a new Lutheran congregation, established in 1997. As a new congregation, we are making every effort to be a congregation welcoming to all God's children. We are a 'Reconciling in Christ' (RIC) congregation. While we recognize we cannot change individual perceptions overnight, we are working to teach in ways that such prejudices do not exist in the future."

Opportunities are available for all members, including gay and transgendered, to lead and assist in the worship services, to participate in the governing body and committees, as well as to develop and implement educational and youth programs. Same sex families are recognized as family units for membership purposes and special services

ELCA ordains openly gay persons who are celibate and has not, as yet, issued an official statement regarding same sex commitment ceremonies.

The printed edition has an advert on page 114.

Mickleton Friends Meeting

County: Gloucester
Religion: Quaker
Address: 24 Lake Drive
Town: Woodbury
State: NJ
Zip: 08096
Phone: (856) 845-7682
Fax: (956) 384-0005
Homepage: http://www.pym.org/salem-qm/mickleton

Description:
Mickleton Friends Meeting is open and actively welcoming to the gay and transgendered community.

Mickleton Friends Meeting was one of the first congregations in the Country to perform a same sex commitment ceremony (1986). To this day, this meetinghouse continues to conduct commitment ceremonies with permission of the Quakers.

Gay persons are welcome participants in the administrative and spiritual life of the Friends. Opportunities are available to serve on committees or the governing body or to participate in the worship service or to lead the educational or youth programs.

The Friends Meeting is actively involved in peace and justice issues. It reaches out to the global community with peaceful alternatives to nuclear weapons, Star Wars, etc.

The Meeting is located at Kings Highway and Democrat Road in Mickleton, NJ.

Bridge of Peace Community Church

County: Camden
Religion: Lutheran
Address: Yorkship & Tuckahoe Streets
Town: Camden
State: NJ
Zip: 08104
Phone: (856) 365-1450
Fax: (856) 365-1450
Homepage: http://www.bridgeofpeace.com

Description:
Bridge of Peace Community Church, a Lutheran

congregation, can be located by the Rainbow welcome sign in front of the Church. Committed to "building a diverse, multi-cultural church that is affirming (not just welcoming) to LGBT people," the Church reaches out to the gay community through its programs, brochures and newsletters. Plans to are being developed to become "Reconciling in Christ" (R.I.C.) congregation.

Bridge of Peace is in the process of forming a Peace Education and Action Center. The Church also participates in the South Camden Citizens in Action, Camden Churches Organized for People, and the Fairview Ministerium. Plans are being developed to organize an outreach to the "gay youth of color" and to host a city-based PFLAG.

Atlantic City Area Friends Meeting

County: Atlantic
Religion: Quaker
Address: 437A S. Pitney Road
Town: Galloway
State: NJ
Zip: 08201
Homepage: http://www.acquakers.org/

Description:
Atlantic City Area Friends Meeting states that as Quakers, "we acknowledge that there is that of God in everyone." This small tight-knit Quaker community of 20 - 40 members is open to the gay and transgendered community. It welcomes all of its members to participate in the worship service and the life of the congregation. Participation can include membership on the governing body and other committees, as well as serving as teachers and youth leaders.

The Meeting affirms the equality of all people and is active in peace and social issues. Several programs have focused on hate speech and bias crimes.

Church of the Advent

County: Cape May
Religion: Episcopal
Address: Franklin & Washington Streets
Town: Cape May
State: NJ
Zip: 08204
Phone: (609) 884-3065
Fax: (609) 884-7080
Homepage: http://www.forministry.com/08204/COTA

Description:
The Church of the Advent a 200+ member Episcopal congregation welcomes gay and transgendered persons to worship. Gays are welcome to participate in the administration of the local Church or to assume a role in the worship service, such as serving communion or reading scripture. They are invited to volunteer in the adult and children's religious educational and youth programs. Openly gay persons are ordained by the Episcopal denomination.

Although the Episcopal Church does not permit same sex commitment ceremonies, same sex families are recognized as a family unit for membership. The traditional family celebrations of anniversaries, baptism or baby naming, and confirmation are extended to gay families, as well as bereavement and funeral services.

"We preach and teach the Gospel" in an effort to decrease hate speech or bias crimes. The Church of the Advent is host to various support group meetings during the week. Several gay and lesbian organizations also meet here. Please feel free to contact the Church office for the meeting schedules for AA, Al-Anon, and GABLES.

Messiah Lutheran Church

County: Cape May
Religion: Lutheran
Address: 4200 Landis Ave.
Town: Sea Isle City
State: NJ
Zip: 08243
Phone: (609) 263-2612
Fax: (609) 263-2612

Description:
Messiah Lutheran Church in Sea Isle City is a "very open, warm, and inviting congregation" of 80 - 100 members and is in the process of applying for Reconciling in Christ (RIC) status. RIC congregations intentionally welcome and include gays and lesbians in congregational life. Gays are welcome to worship with the Church family and to assume roles of leadership as deacons and as members of the governing body or other committees. Gays may assist in the worship service by serving communion, reading scripture, or leading the service. However, only gay persons who are celibate are considered for ordination in the Lutheran Church. While there is currently no Lutheran commitment service for same sex couples, same sex families are welcome here and are considered a family unit for membership. There are opportunities to develop and participate in educational programs for adults, young adults and children.

Gay couples are invited to share the joy of anniversaries, baptisms and confirmations as well as the times of grief and bereavement through the loss of a partner, family member or friend, with the Church.

The Church has reached out to those stricken with AIDS, and the Pastor is a member of the AIDS Task Force.

Ventnor Community Church

County: Atlantic
Religion: United Church of Christ and N.A. of Congregational Churches
Address: 5300 Ventnor Avenue
Town: Ventnor
State: NJ
Zip: 08406
Phone: (609) 822-5937

Description:
In Ventnor Community Church, gay and transgendered persons are welcome and present. This congregation of 80+ members encourages them to participate in the worship service and on the governing body. The United Church of Christ denomination permits the ordination of openly gay persons. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and performed by this Community Church. Both members of a gay couple would be included in public rituals such as anniversaries, baptisms, confirmations, and funerals.

The Church has supported the local AIDS network.

Jewish Community Center of Belle Mead

County: Somerset
Religion: Jewish (Reconstructionist)
Address: 253 Griggstown Rd.
Town: Belle Mead
State: NJ
Zip: 08502
Phone: (908) 359-0420
Fax: (908) 359-8848
Homepage: http://jccbm.org

Description:
The Jewish Community Center of Belle Mead is a Jewish Reconstructionist congregation of 195 families led by a lesbian rabbi.

It is welcoming of the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community. There are gay members and Gay Pride Week is commemorated in services. The rabbi performs same sex commitment ceremonies.

Gays are welcome to serve on governing bodies and on worship committees. They read the Torah and may be religious education teachers and youth program leaders. Both members of a couple would be included in all public rituals.

Programs, sermons, and Hebrew school classes have dealt with decreasing hate speech and bias crimes.

Crosswicks Monthly Meeting

County: Burlington
Religion: Quaker
Address: Post Office Box 456
Town: Crosswicks
State: NJ
Zip: 08515
Phone: (609) 298-4362

Description:
In Crosswicks Monthly Meeting any new attendee or visitor is welcome into the Meeting regardless of age, race, gender, sexual orientation, ability or class. "We strive to respect all persons, treat all persons equally, and free ourselves from practices rooted in prejudice."

Kingston United Methodist Church

County: Middlesex
Religion: United Methodists
Address: 9 Church Street PO Box 291
Town: Kingston
State: NJ
Zip: 08528
Phone: (609) 921-6812
Fax: (609) 252-1823
Email: KUMC@juno.com

Description:
This Methodist congregation of about 60 members describes itself as a diverse, small faith community where everyone is welcome. Although the church doesn't say it actively welcomes gays, lesbians, transgendered, and bisexuals and doesn't reach out to the gay community, it does have gay members who are recognized as family units for membership purposes and are welcome on church governing boards and committees.

Gays and lesbians serve on the worship committee, serve Holy Communion, teach religious education, read the scriptures, serve as youth leaders and lead services. Both members of a gay couple would be included in such public rituals as anniversaries, baptisms, confirmations and funerals.

The Methodist denomination doesn't ordain openly gay people or permit same-sex commitment ceremonies. The Kingston church hosts such support groups as Supportive Sisters, AA, CODA and SLAA during weeknights. Although the congregation has no transgendered members, they would be welcome at services.

Nassau Presbyterian Church

County: Mercer
Religion: Presbyterian
Address: 61 Nassau Street
Town: Princeton
State: NJ
Zip: 08540
Homepage: http://www.nassauchurch.org

Unitarian Universalist Church at Washington Crossing

County: Mercer
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: 268 Washington Crossing Road
Town: Titusville
State: NJ
Zip: 08560
Phone: (609) 737-0150
Fax: (609) 730-1148
Homepage: http://uucwc.org

Description:
Unitarian Universalist Church at Washington Crossing has 250 members and is a "Welcoming Church."

GLBT people are actively welcomed and over forty are members.

Same sex families are recognized as family units. All are welcome to serve in the ritual and spiritual life of the community. Gays may serve on the ritual committee, read scripture, and lead services. They may be deacons, religious education teachers, and youth program leaders.

Both members of a same sex couple would be included in Baby Naming, Anniversaries, and Coming of Age.

There is outreach with Renaissance and an active Interweave group.

This was one of the first five congregations within the UUA to go through the process and become a Welcoming Church.

Trinity United Methodist

County: Mercer
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 1985 Pennington Road
Town: Ewing
State: NJ
Zip: 08618
Phone: (609) 883-9160
Homepage: http://www.gbgm.-vmc.org/ewingnj

Description:
Trinity United Methodist Church has 200 members and is in Ewing.

This congregation has gay members and this directory listing is outreach to the GLBT community.

Same sex families are recognized as family units for purposes of membership. All are welcome to serve in the ritual and spiritual life of the community. Gays may serve on the worship committee, read scripture, serve Holy Communion, and lead services. They may be religious education teachers and youth program leaders.

The denomination does not permit same sex commitment ceremonies, nor does it ordain openly gay people.

The church ritualizes the AIDS crisis with an AIDS candle on the altar.

Outreach includes housing the homeless for a week several times a year through Housing Contact Offices, scouting, church school for all ages, youth groups, "coffee house" ministry, and home fellowships.

All are welcome at Trinity United Methodist Church.

Faith Lutheran Church

County: Ocean
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: 1801 Grand Central Ave.
Town: Lavallette
State: NJ
Zip: 08735
Phone: (732) 793-8138
Email: FAITHLavallette@att.net

Description:
Faith Lutheran Church in Lavallette, a congregation of approximately 200 members, "welcomes Lutherans, as well as all others that desire to worship Christ, without consideration of their sexual preferences...we welcome all persons to worship and to participate with us as members of the body of Christ."

"Faith Lutheran Church welcomes all peoples to our faith community, as we believe Christ did, with no reservations. Issues, such as our members' sexual orientations, are considered private matters.

"All baptized persons desirous of membership, who profess Jesus Christ as their Savior, are accepted; and thereby, may serve in any capacity in our congregation. They are welcome to participate in the various ministries that we offer and, if elected, may also serve on the Congregational Council."

Manasquan Friends Meeting

County: Monmouth
Religion: Quaker
Address: PO Box 522
Town: Manasquan
State: NJ
Zip: 08736

Description:
The Manasquan Friends Meeting is a Quaker Meeting with 45 members.

It is the stated policy of this denomination that everyone is welcome.

Members may serve in every function of the life of the community. There are no ordained clergy and organization is minimal. It is a "Christ centered meeting."

Local outreach includes reaching the African-American community; the Food Bank of Monmouth/Ocean County; and Ministerium, a shelter for abused women and children.

Point Pleasant Presbyterian Church

County: Ocean
Religion: Presbyterian(USA)
Address: Bay & Forman Avenues
Town: Point Pleasant Beach
State: NJ
Zip: 08742
Phone: (732) 899-0587
Fax: (732) 899-2946
Homepage: http://www.pointpresbyterian.org

Description:
The Point Pleasant Presbyterian Church, with 700 members, has gay members. Same sex families are recognized as family units for membership and at public rituals. They are included in the church's youth ministry and church school.

Service is welcome on the worship committee, as religious education teachers and youth program leaders, in reading scripture, and in leading services.

Adult education events have dealt with gay issues; volunteers help with AIDS meals. A.A. meets at the church. Outreach includes a food pantry and assistance to mentally ill boarding home residents.

Unitarian Universalist Ocean County Congregation

County: Ocean
Religion: Unitarian Universalist
Address: PO Box 5184
Town: Ocean
State: NJ
Zip: 08754
Phone: (732) 244-3455
Homepage: http://uuocc.nj.uua.org

Description:
The Unitarian Universalist Ocean County Congregation,

a Welcoming Congregation of Unitarian Universalists, numbers about 70 members. Open to the gay and transgendered community, it provides opportunities for all members to participate in church life as worship leaders, committee members, teachers, and youth leaders.

Openly gay persons are considered for ordination in the Unitarian Universalist denomination. Same sex commitment ceremonies are permitted and celebrated at this congregation. Same sex families are recognized as family units for purpose of membership. Services for baby naming, anniversaries, and bereavement are also extended to gay couples and families.

"We welcome all people and provide a small, caring community of diverse thinkers. Our denomination has provided leadership in gay issues."

Presbyterian Church

County: Somerset
Religion: Presbyterian
Address: 409 Mountain Avenue
Town: Bound Brook
State: NJ
Zip: 08808
Phone: (732) 356-3575
Fax: (732) 281-8211
Homepage: http://BBPC.org

Description:
The Presbyterian Church (USA) with 600 members in Bound Brook welcomes all persons to join fully in every aspect of the Presbyterian Church Life.

The Congregation is active in providing service and supporting persons with AIDS. The Church has support group meetings that include: AA, OA, SA, NA, and grief support.

"We are seeking to be a bias free community, inclusive and welcoming. We are building an Immigrant Advocacy Center."

"This is a safe community where the issues of one's sexual orientation do not become a focus; instead the whole spiritual, emotional and communal well being of the person is addressed."

Hands of Change

County: Middlesex
Religion: Wiccan
Address: 176 Tices Land
Town: East Brunswick
State: NJ
Zip: 08816
Phone: (732) 545-2654
Homepage: http://handsofchange.org

Description:
A lesbian, two bisexuals, and a heterosexual founded this church. The congregation now includes dozens of gays, lesbians, and bisexuals.

Members say they are open and welcoming to men, women, and transgendered poeple of all orientations. Gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgendered people are welcome to serve on church boards and councils. In fact, GLBT people currently serve on the ritual or worship committee, as religious education teachers, and as youth program leaders. GLBT people also perform readings and lead services.

Recently a church member contributed to a book on Queer spirituality and discussed it with the congregation. The congregation also has a table at the annual GLBT Pride event. The Wiccan denomination permits same-sex commitment services, which the church's spiritual leaders conduct.

NJ's Lesbian & Gay Havurah

County: Middlesex
Religion: Jewish
Address: PO Box 2576
Town: Edison
State: NJ
Zip: 08818
Phone: (732) 650-1010
Fax: (732) 549-9056
Homepage: http://www.njhav.org

Description:
New Jersey's Lesbian and Gay Havurah, a Jewish community of 100 is located in Edison.

Founded in 1991, the community is made up of GLBT Jews and their friends. Members represent a full spectrum of Jewish backgrounds and observance.

Meetings are held on the first Thursday of each month in Edison and Shabbat Services monthly in members' homes.

There are day trips to places of interest and social events, which include Gay Liberation Seder, Passover Seder, a Holocaust Memorial Service, Anniversary Party and weekend retreats.

NJLGH is a member of the World Congress of Jewish Gay & Lesbian Organizations.

The Temple Emanu-El

County: Middlesex
Religion: Jewish
Address: 100 James Street
Town: Edison
State: NJ
Zip: 08820
Phone: (732) 549-4442
Fax: (732) 549-2814
Homepage: http://westfieldnj.com/temple

Description:
Temple Emanu-El boasts 320 member families and an active stance toward gays and lesbians. There are as many as ten gay members, and the congregation reaches out to the gay community through gay organizations and newsletters.

Gays serve on the worship committee, and as religious education teachers, scripture readers, youth education teachers, and youth program leaders. Gays also read the Torah and lead services. Both members of a gay couple would be included in such private ritual events as honors, baby namings, bar or bat mitzvahs, aufref ceremonies, anniversaries and funerals.

The congregation also sponsors an annual Gay Pride Sabbath, and includes mention of Gay Pride Week in religious services. The denomination ordains openly gay people, and same sex commitment ceremonies are conducted at Temple Emanu-El, whose mission statements makes a specific reference to sexual orientation. Although the congregation has never scheduled a program on issues facing transgendered people, it would be open to do so.

North Hunderdon United Methodist Church

County: Hunterdon
Religion: United Methodist
Address: 31 County Road 635
Town: Hampton
State: NJ
Zip: 08827
Phone: (908) 537-2810

Description:
North Hunterdon United Methodist Church in Hampton "The Positive Church" has as its mission statement, "We are a compassionate family who endeavors to prove a loving haven/refuge to anyone. We live God's word by deepening spirituality through support of families, education, worship and outreach."

GLBT people are welcome at this church. Same sex couples would be considered as a unit for purposes of membership and for public rituals such as baptism, confirmation and funerals.

Gays are welcome to serve in leadership roles and be spiritual leaders.

Outreach includes Noah's Ark Preschool; Rainbows Program, for children in painful transitions; a thrift shop; and Saturday Night Cafe, a teen group.

The highly supportive pastor has a Doctor of Education in Human Sexuality.

St. Barnabas Episcopal Church

County: Middlesex
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 142 Sand Hill Road
Town: Monmouth Junction
State: NJ
Zip: 08852
Phone: (732) 297-4607
Fax: (732) 821-9144

Description:
St. Barnabas Episcopal Church is in Monmouth Junction.

GLBT people are welcome at St. Barnabas and may serve on the governing boards and as ritual/spiritual leaders. Same sex families are recognized as family units.

"We are not a very 'political' congregation. We welcome and seek to include Christians from various backgrounds and seekers who what to explore/experience a Christian community which is diverse in terms of race, education, income sexual orientation, age, national origin and politics.

"Someone (gay or straight) who is looking for a 'militant' congregation on political issues would be frustrated; someone (gay or straight) who is looking for a mellow,

friendly congregation with opportunities to grow and serve would find us well worth checking out."

St. John's Episcopal Church

County: Somerset
Religion: Episcopalian
Address: 158 West High Street
Town: Somerville
State: NJ
Zip: 08876
Phone: (908) 722-1250
Fax: (908) 541-0705

Description:
Saint John's Episcopal Church, home to 225 families is located in Somerville and welcomes all gays, lesbians and bisexuals into the congregation. All members can be a part of the total parish community and serve to the fullest involvement of the individual's choice. With the approval of the Bishop same sex commitment ceremonies are possible.

St. John's sponsors programs on gay issues by joining with other local churches in regards to housing, hate and bias crimes. The parish holds support group meetings of A.A., education, Civic League, Soup Kitchen, and more. There is a youth group and a strong mission-out reach and ministry.

Holy Trinity Episcopal Church

County: Middlesex
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 90 Leonardine Ave.
Town: South River
State: NJ
Zip: 08882
Phone: (732) 254-1734

Description:
All people are welcome here, says Father Patronik. "We are all created in the image of God." He noted that the church actively welcomes gays, lesbians, heterosexuals, and bisexuals. There are members of all of the above here.

Gays may serve on church boards and councils, on the worship committee, serve Holy Communion, read scripture, and serve as religious education teachers and youth program leaders.

Holy Trinity welcomes all people called to Christ to participate in baptism and confirmation. The Episcopal denomination ordains openly gay people. Holy Trinity's publicity and outreach materials stress an open and loving environment for all.

Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple

County: Middlesex
Religion: Jewish (Reform)
Address: 222 Livingston Ave.
Town: New Brunswick
State: NJ
Zip: 08901
Phone: (732) 545-6484
Fax: (732) 745-7448
Homepage: http://www.aemt.net/

Description:
With about 600 members, Anshe Emeth is one of the largest houses of worship in New Brunswick. Although the temple doesn't specifically reach out to gays and lesbians, it has gay members, same sex families are recognized as family units and gays are welcome to serve on temple governing bodies.

Gays and lesbians serve on the ritual or worship committee, read the Torah, lead services, and participate as religious education teachers and youth program leaders. Both members of a gay couple would be honored in public rituals. Its members frequently participate in programs sponsored by the Anti-Defamation League, and the Religious Action Center for Reform Judaism. Members participate in the biannual "Consultation on Conscience" program, and the Development Corporation, which provides free medical and legal services. The active youth group participates in social action trips to Washington, D.C.

Although Reform Judaism permits same sex commitment ceremonies, the Anshe Emeth spiritual leader declines performing them.

Christ Church of New Brunswick

County: Middlesex
Religion: Episcopal
Address: 5 Paterson St.
Town: New Brunswick
State: NJ
Zip: 08901
Phone: (732) 545-6262
Fax: (732) 545-6264
Homepage: http://www.forministry.com/08901cce

Description:
Historic Christ Church is one of the oldest churches in New Brunswick and its membership of 375 is diverse.

The church actively welcomes gays, lesbians and bisexuals and reaches out to them mostly through parishioners' word of mouth. There are up to 20 gay members, and same sex families are recognized as family units for membership purposes. Gays are welcome on church governing bodies, including the worship or ritual committee. They also serve Holy Communion, read scripture, teach religious education classes, and take leadership in services. Both members of a gay couple would be included in anniversaries, baptisms, confirmations and funerals.

Christ Church reaches out to people with AIDS by housing the CHAI project. The Episcopal Church as a whole is still considering same sex commitment ceremonies. At this time, the local rector will not perform same sex commitment services. Among the social action ministries housed at this church are AA, NA, ESL, and Unlearning/Dismantling Racism.

Their mission statement ends, "Everyone is welcome here."

Emanuel Lutheran Church

County: Middlesex
Religion: Lutheran (ELCA)
Address: New and Kirkpatrick Streets
Town: New Brunswick
State: NJ
Zip: 08901
Phone: (732) 545-2673
Fax: (732) 545-0356
Homepage: http://www.luther95.org/EELC-NBNJ/

Description:
Emanuel is the first church in the New Jersey Synod of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America to become a Reconciling in Christ congregation, which means that it is highly welcoming to gays and lesbians.

A top lay leader is a lesbian and several more gays